Sunday, September 6, 2020

ARRIVAL and 40!!! August 22 and 23, 2020

We woke this morning with the most spectacular red sun rising over the river and knew it would be a good day!  We took advantage of having water and power hooked up and cleaned and wasted a bit of water with a long shower and getting ready for the next five nights with not connections. For another final morning extravagance, we walked to town and bought a scone and cinnamon roll from the only cafĂ© there to enjoy with our coffee.   

We actually didn’t plan on arriving today with Jacob’s 40th birthday being tomorrow but there was nowhere to stop!  So we have a longer day on our hands.  Nonetheless, even with a casual start, the clocks turned in our direction and we’re on schedule for a 3pm arrival as Jacob will be celebrating ala surprise with his local family.  Happy Birthday, Jacob!!!

The party was pretty much over on our arrival and we had the challenge of handling a close family relationship and covid.  Causing extreme stress with Rob’s treatment looming and the risk of Covid, we try our best to maintain distance, stay outside and stay masked inside.  The risk is real and is pretty unavoidable, all things considered. 

Home base is the parking lot of the TriLakes Center for the Arts, right behind Jacob’s house.  The owner kindly allowed us to park during our stay with the town of Palmer Lake strictly prohibiting camping.  With the help of the police chief, city hall and the Arts Center, we have special permission to stay making us feel so fortunate, not to mention the ten point buck coming to visit within minutes of our arrival!

We celebrated Jacob’s birthday in fine style today.  He requested my own childhood tradition of heath bar coffee cake for breakfast.  I woke up to his call to announce his rising and got to work on the task.  The rest of the day was all birthday prep and party.  Rob and I took a break for a good hike to justify the calories of the amazing ribs Jacob spent all day smoking and we had several salads as sides before indulging on my fresh baked deep dish derby pie – another request – as birthday cake! 

We were joined by Jacob’s father and his wife Caryn and we had a wonderful afternoon enjoying the beautiful weather on the back porch, eating that delicious meal and watching a slide show I had put together of Jacob’s 40 years.  It was especially rewarding having his father and I together providing memories from each perspective to honor the dual life he’s had all these years.

It’s been a great start to this chapter of our journey and we look forward with anticipation to this time with family and friends with the added bonus of a hopefully successful treatment and another new start for Rob’s health.  Yes, it’s been a good start.



THE MIDWEST – August 21, 2020


Leaving Topeka, we were on the highway in minutes and headed on the less than confusing route straight down I-70 with no turns in sight until our arrival tomorrow in Palmer Lake!  We had about 3 ½ plotted hours to go but travel at 10 miles less than the posted highway speed here so ended up with over four in store.

One doesn’t get ones expectations up for much excitement when traveling in Kansas and the destination we found for the night was last recorded place to camp before the front range!  The town of Ellis, KS created a campground on the sight of their little river boasting 25 sites with water and power, something many smaller campgrounds don’t offer.  Again, we didn’t expect much and were quite surprised to find a quaint campground right on a quiet, lazy river and all the amenities of some of the better campgrounds we’ve been to! 

There were only two other campers there when we arrived so we had our choice of the whole place and got ourselves settled with everything we needed for our final night on the long stretch to Colorado.  We wandered the very small town which had barely any commerce left with Covid’s fallout.  Nonetheless, the town had a good spirit and everyone we met was friendly and kind.

We took the chance with our longer than usual time to set up our chairs by the river with a cocktail and watch the world go by.  A bus full of kids showed up ready to fish and swim who provided for some good entertainment.  We came to find out that they were a group hosted by a healthcare organization supporting children from foster homes and broken families.  It was especially heartening to see the amount of fun they were having and the decency that they all treated each other with.

Dinner was grilled tuna over a fresh salad and leftover peach cobbler for Rob while I cheated on a bowl of ice cream with decadent brandied cherries!  It was a night for pleasure!  The sun set with quiet and grace as the campground filled with a nice combination of local folks finding a place to safely gather and onroad passers through.  Another pleasant night on our crazy journey!


FORGING ON – August 20, 2020

Without any extra trail options to explore, we packed up and got on the road for an early start.  Having had 3 long driving days behind us, we were glad to have something a bit less grueling on the schedule for the day.  Today had 3 ¼ hours of driving on the schedule, not a lot less but the mountains are gone as are the large cities. 

The time passed easily with the roads being better, less construction, and we had no hangups along the way.  Getting this far into the Midwest, the camping options become more scarce.  Many of the campgrounds don’t receive good ratings and there are less geologic features (ie mountains, lakes, etc) as visual distractions or attractions.  I found a small county park off the highway just outside Topeka, KS and we pulled in earlier than any arrival so far.

We picked a site on the lake and were pleased to find there is a trail all the way around the lake to walk or bike.  The park is clearly a local favorite and utilizes all space available with campsites being in some spaces nearly on top of one another.  Ours had a lot more room with a wide green space behind where our fire pit was and the perfect spot for the sunset.

We set up camp which has gotten to be second nature for us.  We put down the jacks and get level then I put the slides out, put the rug on the floor, guitar off the bed, reset the countertops, etc while Rob hooks up the power and water and checks all things exterior.  We put out the outdoor “rug”, the chairs, maybe the grill and pull out the awning if needed and we’re back to the fun! 

Today had us pulling the bikes down for the 7 mile bike around the lake.  The area hosts a nice golf course, a botanic garden and arboretum and gentle rolling hills all the way around.  We enjoyed the ride and the gardens, surprised at the wonderful site they’d created entirely by volunteer efforts.  It was fun to see the species similar and different to those at home – this far away.

The rest of the day was recovering from the ride and all the driving.  Happy hour was extended with Rob playing guitar and we grilled a nice dinner enjoying pork chops with sweet potatoes and broccoli I roasted and fresh stewed apples.  The campfire we built was another winner and I couldn’t help but roast a marshmallow or two for good measure. 

We had a sad interaction today with our older son we are headed to visit for his (really?!) 40th!! Birthday.  Covid has really made all things intimate so difficult.  With Rob needing treatment while we’re in Denver, we have kept a grueling safety protocol regarding Covid.  Thankfully, our son and his family aren’t needing the same precautions but visiting makes for a lot of complications.  No hugs?  Masks – all the time?  Indoors, outdoors, eating … ???  Anyway, I spent a good part of the evening feeling sad and reading articles about how to cope, none of which really helped. 

We will make do and forge a way through it is where I ended up before giving in to the sounds of the campground quieting for the night and letting the soft breeze through the window lull me to sleep.

ONWARD - AUGUST 19

We took the hike from the campground to the cave to find an opening blocked with not only chain link fencing but a concrete block wall.  Apparently, the cave has been excavated and contained remnants dating back 10,000 years.  There is nary a display to indicate exactly what they found and the whole site was pretty disappointing.  In other times there may be park staff that offers some insight but none was to be had for this visit!

The hike around that pretty lake was calling my name and Rob forced his tired feet to follow mine for the task before packing up the next day.  I don’t know what to say for myself but I have a “thing” about hiking!  Finding flowers, fungus, mushrooms and all things wonderfully natural at the same time as doing something good for myself – what could be better?!nyway, we got the hike out of the way and were on the road with a goal of another state park – Graham Cave – in Missouri this time.  We tried a new approach and headed for a smaller highway route thinking of avoiding the monotony of freeway driving and also Saint Louis traffic.  It didn’t take long for Rob to tire of all things “small town” and we rerouted back to the hustle and bustle.

Contradicting completely the original thought, we ended up needing diesel – right in the thick of Saint Louis traffic!  We picked a location promising a good price only to find they didn’t keep their promise.  Oh well, live and learn.  And we also learned about pulling into the truck bays vs the passenger vehicle pumps.  Without going into detail…we won’t be doing that again! 

Fuel accomplished, the next stop was the dreaded WalMart visit for a few supplies.  We were done with civilization completely by the end of that visit and could not be happier than to find our way to our campground for the night. Another Covid experience, the campground was nearly deserted.  With one other site taken and only one showing a reservation, we had the pick of less than well-kept sites.  We nonetheless got ourselves settled and wasted no time stretching our legs after a longer than expected day of driving. 

We took the hike from the campground to the cave to find an opening blocked with not only chain link fencing but a concrete block wall.  Apparently, the cave has been excavated and contained remnants dating back 10,000 years.  There is nary a display to indicate exactly what they found and the whole site was pretty disappointing.  In other times there may be park staff that offers some insight but none was to be had for this visit!

Not to be deterred, we enjoyed the park and the campground nonetheless and made ourselves another great meal and fire before some cards and a blissful, quiet and dark night’s sleep.


THREE STATES SALUTE – August 18 - 20, 2020

AUGUST 18  I had made a tentative itinerary before our departure, planning on 3-4 hours of driving each day and an eight driving day trip.  Day three was planned to take us to another Army Corp property – and another dam!  As life (and my never-ending ability to change my mind) would have it, a State Park another half hour’s drive past the original plan boasted a more lush setting and I got myself excited about it.

The ride was uneventful for the most part and the scenery was beautiful with the mountainous terrain of eastern Tennessee.  We stopped for lunch at the dam of our original destination but got right back on the road.  We crossed several state lines that day saying goodbye to Tennessee, a jaunt through Kentucky and ending up in Illinois at Fern Clyffe State Park.

Covid makes for a unique feel everywhere and parks are no different.  We arrived to find no staff on site including no camp host (a day off, apparently).  Neighboring campers filled us in on protocol and we grabbed a site and set up without further ado. 

Fern Clyffe had some unusual geographic features with rich vegetation covering massive stone outcroppings making for some interesting hiking.  The park boasts a waterfall but, being late in the summer, there was barely a trickle.  We meandered further finding an inviting lake before calling it quits for the day.

Wanting a campfire, we gathered what we could find and set about the task when neighbor, Bob, brought three great pieces by and we ended up with a fine fire to wind down to before a game of cards and ending the day. 







NEW HIGHWAY – August 17, 2020

 

We woke up ready to get some exercise and hit the first trail we saw meandering for 5 miles before making it back to our site in time to wrap up business and get back on the road.  A hike is such a great way to start the day and I find that I can go for hours and hours on trails vs the limited average hour I can take from walking city streets.  We revel in the quiet and beauty around us and return invigorated for the next leg of our trip.

Rob always prefer to do all the driving – anyone who knows him understands (I need a good emoji here!)  With recent health concerns, though, he now allows me an hour or two each day to give him a break.  He starts out and takes us through the beautiful Smokey Mountains and I take over a couple hours in – just in time for an hour of city driving through Knoxville!  I’m getting more comfortable at the wheel but open highway is a far sight less challenging than hectic city traffic.  I feel more experienced every stretch though and am ever thankful that he likes driving as much as he does!

The travel plan has us knocking off another couple hundred miles for about 4 hours of driving.  The destination is Center Hill Dam in Tennessee, an Army Corp of Engineers project with a campground (and a half price discount with our national parks pass!)  With my driving slower and a couple traffic delays, we finally arrived after 5 hours on the road, longer than we normally like to go with the RV requiring vigilance of a different kind than in a car. 

The campground is definitely a more practical and basic style being meant for more utilitarian use than entertainment but it suits us just fine.  Our sight is next to a side stream with the sound of running water prevailing.  Camp set up is a clockwork project for us now and in no time we’re sitting by the water with a drink and apps and letting the driving melt away.


Matthew sent us out with 3 pieces of frozen fresh made pizza dough and we enjoyed the first one topped with his fresh grown tomatoes and banana peppers on top.  What a treat!  Feeling full and relaxed, we wander the campground after dinner.  The dam is large and looming with the resulting lake on the other side of its bulk. 

Our side boasts a meandering stream when the water’s held back and we find a path to the river’s edge as the evening fog rolls in and the sun sets.  Fireflies, heron and finally hawks come to life at the waters edge and we sit and watch and listen as the day winds to an end feeling thankful for safe travels and peaceful rest.

COLORADO - THE EXIT – August 15, 2020

With final plans still not in place for Rob’s needed medical treatment there, we plan to arrive in Palmer Lake, CO on son Jacob’s 40th birthday.  The final week was a mixture of anticipation and concern, looking forward to seeing family and friends in Colorado tempered with heightened COVID vigilance in place for Rob’s high risk profile. 

Departure day saw us brunching with Matt, Danyelle and dear Madi before heading for Lake Powhatan just over the NC border near Asheville.  We hit the road without fanfare and were on our way for our first journey with nearly no plan in place. 

A straight shot up highway 26 from Charleston, the only stop we made was for fuel before the price change at the border.  It’s always interesting to see the different attitudes along the way as far as the pandemic is concerned.  In upstate South Carolina, Covid is not taken seriously and literally everyone in the gas station that day was without a mask.  But let’s not get into THAT for now! 

We were excited to see a peach stand across the road, however, where we bought what I thought was too many peaches and now wish I had bought more – DELICIOUS!!  Rob was on a roll and scored peach cider, chutney and some special bloody mary mix along with some pepper jelly while I grabbed some farm fresh vegetables (always the health conscious one!)

Lake Powhatan has always been a favorite spot for us being close enough to Asheville to see friends from there, being near 26 so a good “get to the mountains” destination from Charleston and boasting a lake and great hiking trails that connect to the AT when time and energy provide.  We arrived not long before sunset and did our now routine job of setting up camp. 

Grill set up and tablecloth in place, it wasn’t long before apps were out and salmon was on the grill as we enjoyed the setting sun filter through the trees and let the stress of departure day ooze out of our systems.  All in all, it was a good start to a different journey and if nothing else – we’re on our way!

Southwest Virginia, determined to succeed

 VIRGINIA, REMOTELY – Aug 2, make that the 4th to the 10th, 2020

DELAYS AND ARRIVAL – August 2-4, 2020

It seems nothing will be easy in 2020!  Charleston continues to see Covid at an elevated high albeit stable number each day and now that August has arrived, we are reminded that the hurricane season has arrived in earnest.  We had chosen a park in Southwest Virginia as a final run before the looming trip to Colorado for medical treatment for Rob later this month. 

As our solid 2020 travel buddies, Jack and Marcia arrived at Grindstone national campground on July 31 without service to communicate.  As 2020 would have it, about the same time, the arrival of Tropical Storm Isaias set its sights on Charleston.  


Instead of enjoying a comfortable exit, we found ourselves frantically preparing for what was promised to be significant flooding and high winds. We were due to leave the day it was due to arrive and we contacted the park to hold our spot for whatever delay was in order and waited.  We stored the fully loaded RV at our son Matthew's house hoping to avoid the inevitable Charleston floods and snuck in an extra visit with our adorable (and very hard to leave!) granddaughter Madi!  Thankfully, all of our preparations were for naught.  The storm passed by uneventfully at best and we wasted no time putting the yard and the house back in order for as quick a departure as we could make.  

We had planned to make the 6 hour trip in two days preferring not to spend more than three hours on the road in a day.  Conversely, we were up at the crack of dawn and on the road for a hopefully relaxed trip for the whole distance.  We made good time and enjoyed the increasingly beautiful scenery – even the crazy roads as they got smaller and hillier along the way.  Somewhere between 1 and 2 hours from Grindstone, we lost our cell phone coverage and felt like we had made the escape.

GETTING IN THE GROOVE, August 5, 2020

Grindstone was a beautifully remote and wonderfully located park with countless options for hiking, many on the Appalachian Trail, right from the campground.  Rob and I face a constant challenge of deciding to tow our car on the RV.  An expensive option, we keep putting it off to be sure of the practicality of spending the money.  In this instance, without Jack and Marcia’s truck being available, our options would have been seriously limited. 

Each day, we drove to wonderful new hikes.  The first was a 9.2 mile day to the summit of Mount Rogers.  With wild ponies on the trail (who weren’t wild enough they wouldn’t eat from our hands – just grass, mind you!) and a wonderfully balanced long hike of ups and downs, rocks and meadow.  We lunched (hiker’s peanut butter – yum!) at the summit with the resident mice.

The skies threatened the entire hike back and Rob and I had left our rain gear sitting right at the exit to the RV!  I spent my mental energy on willing clear skies for the final meadow stretch.  The drizzle started as we were in the thick cover of the forest and Rob was full of talking about getting wet but right as the trees parted, the rain de-parted and I was pretty happy with my powers!!

VIRGINIA CREEPER! – Aug 6, 2020

One of the main reasons for choosing this reason to camp is the proximity of the famed Virginia Creeper Trail, a 30 mile bike trail from Whitetop Mountain on an decline all the way to Abingdon where Jack and Marcia had gotten married 7 years prior.  We were all excited about our fun day down the trail and Jack was all psyched to treat us to dinner at The Tavern in Abingdon where they had had a memorable eve years before. 


Again, Covid posed its challenges and none of us were willing to take the packed shuttle van with our bikes to the mountaintop!  With some creativity and local inquiry, we found Linda who drove us, all masked, and our bikes to the top before taking the truck back to Damascus for our return.  That worked! 

Today’s challenge was that my bike – really?! – had a flat tire!  Undaunted, Rob rigged the pump in the side of his backpack and off we went.  Well, that concept was better in theory and my tire required air about every couple miles.  The routine ended up pretty comical.  Rob would pump up the tire to bursting, I would jump on and ride like the wind utilizing the decline as well as determined pedaling until I could feel myself riding the road hard again.  Stop, repeat, RIDE!!

All of this silliness of course caused us to be at different intervals with Jack and Marcia who deserved to take the trail enjoying the nostalgia.  We did manage to stop at the same time to recall their wedding and for pictures.  Marcia also had some caches to score along the way and the scenery also did not disappoint. 

This continued until the tire gave up the ghost altogether – about five miles from the truck’s location!  The “ride” from that point meant me on a power walk as everyone else progressed on pace.  Reaching the roadside 2 miles from the end, Rob stayed with my bike and I was able to enjoy riding the last couple miles with Jack and Marcia to retrieve the truck and then Rob!

We drove from there to Abingdon for the promised dinner to find the restaurant closed!  We had a driving tour nonetheless and returned to Damascus for beer and wings safely al fresco before taking our weary bones home to end the day.

HIKING GALORE – Aug 7 – 9

With the main event behind us, we spent the next few days doing what we love.  Hiking, cooking, caching, reading, gaming, eating, eating (ha!) and cocktails!  The next day’s hike did provide for another story.  Jack attended college in this general area and had fond memories of hiking Whitetop Mountain.  The hike being far removed from the area of the Creeper trail, we headed there to hike. 

The trail is a magical fairyland!  From the very first steps, you enter the trees to find moss covering near every surface and delicate and rich vegetation all around.  The trees were tall and sheltering and the trail somehow managed to be easy and challenging at the same time.  We had planned for a five mile hike all promising this wonderful surrounding.  The 2 ½ mile turnaround at the Appalachian Trail appeared with nearly any notice, the hike was so captivating!  But – we weren’t to Whitetop!!

Marcia normally has a five mile limit for uphill hikes and was casting some serious glances at Jack who was convinced that the summit was just a short jaunt up a side trail ahead!  We started out without the direction being completely clear and quite frankly, got ourselves we’re not even sure where!  Try as we did, over another mile on, we never found that darn summit!  We even lost each other at one point along with cell service which was call for a few moments of, hmm, let’s call it question! 

We lunched and laughed and turned around finally finding our hideaway trail taking us back to our origin.  We ended up logging in nearly 8 miles that day with the last 3 being outright bears!  But the day was cause for some good laughs and a few lessons and no one really needed anything too strenuous for the next few days!

That being said, Rob and I managed to continue to log miles on the trails from the campground the next few days.  The trails were so easy to reach and were so enjoyable to hike that we really couldn’t help ourselves!  Rob also was on a roll with his headaches being in control again making time out and together so much better.  The eating, drinking, hiking, gaming and campfires carried us happily through each day. As hard as it is to leave home behind, there is something freeing and healing to commune with nature and its rich surprises, quiet forests and cool, dark nights.

LET’S CALL IT A SUCCESS, August 10

With our reservations ended and a lot to get done at home, we wake the next day ready to get the rig ready to travel and hit the road home.  Knowing we had no great options to stop along the way home, we planned to cover the whole distance the same day and knew we’d need to get our hearts pumping beforehand. 

We took the trail back toward Mount Rogers for one final time and logged in the final miles to make for 46 total miles in a short 6 days!  I think that’s a record and we felt invigorated, healthy and spent all at once!

We wrapped up our time with Jack and Marcia hoping (and knowing, really) that we’d find a way to reconnect before TOO long.  We cleaned the RV, put water in the tank, emptied the gray and black tanks and hit the road with more great memories in our pockets.  I’d call this one a SUCCESS!
































Croft State Park, another try



 Determined to travel – July, 2020

We were supposed to have spent two weeks in the Blue Ridge Mountains with Jack and Marcia this summer.  As Covid continues to rage, all federal properties still remain closed making camping along the parkway an impossibility.  Rob continued to have health challenges along with a treatment that caused even more trouble and we were feeling Covid limitations and complications more than ever.

Jack and Marcia made their move north from Florida as soon as restrictions and safety allowed and found themselves within an easy day’s drive of us, as good an excuse as we needed!  Croft State Park is just outside Spartanburg and an easy drive straight up I-26 from Charleston and we made plans to meet up there.

The park was a complete surprise!  Being enamored with mountain parks, we really didn’t have high expectations.  The campground was nestled in the trees with welcoming sites and there were hikes in every direction with lakes and streams and several caches for Marcia to find her way to.  The best part of the experience, however, was the relief of being outside of the Covid raging city for a few days and being with friends following the same safety protocol we used.  

Being with Jack and Marcia, we fell into our “routine” and hiked ourselves silly (me especially),  Marcia found several caches (always the diversion) and we ate, drank and gamed at will.  An extra challenge this visit was that Rob continued to have debilitating migraines and my emotional state was at an all time low.  Having been secluded from friends for months and Rob’s health being a roller coaster ride with some really BIG “thrills” along the way, I was what could be described as a wreck!  


Despite my emotional state, we carried on and even had a fun day exploring Spartanburg, a town we have near 40 years experience with in business but didn't really know.  We found a welcoming, open minded and contemporary town and I scored a birthday gift for my daughter in law and Rob and I had our first meal out in many months - all protocol safe, mind you!

As our times together would indicate, any rendezvous with Jack and Marcia meant good food and lots of games.  Not as exciting for blog material but always a joy for all of us.  With Rob down a lot of the time, I had even more time to cook and kept us well fed while Marcia reliably arrived with some stellar G&T's to share.  Can't say it's a bad life!

Jack’s full-time RV-ing son, Jack Jr and his wife RoseMarie decided at the last minute to come see them at Croft.  Being in my “tender” condition, the complication of visiting with people whose habits I knew nothing of along with selfishly being less than desiring to share the precious days with our friends provided to be a challenge that took me to the brink and I had a good, honest Covid cry!!


These are circumstances that show a person’s underbelly.  They also show people’s true colors.  Marcia proved herself to be more than an RV buddy, more than a good game player, hike taker or dinner sharer.  Marcia locked herself in as a true friend.  Seeing what I was fighting terribly with myself to hide, she showed up and helped me let go.  All of the sadness, frustration and fear of the last 4+ months of covid and health scares came out on the shoulder of someone risking her own safety with a lifesaving hug. 

More than the trees, the streams, the hikes or games, our time together at Croft will be the time that I was rescued by a friend. 












Gainesville area, GA - an ... ESCAPE? May 2020

Tallulah Gorge State Park, May 2020

Who would have guessed we’d be where we are today?  I’m not talking about Tallulah Gorge, I’m talking about Covid-19!  For two months now, we’ve been dealing with the new reality that Covid has brought.  There’s no need to explain, we all are experiencing life in a new way.  Our particular challenge is Rob’s health in the midst of the pandemic.  With another recurrence of tumor growth, we’re having to maneuver continued healthcare mired with new complications. 

With the airBNB business at an understandable standstill and feeling like our wanderlust might make us crazy in the confines of our own little bubble, we decided to try a short trip to an open park in nearby Georgia.  Really, how dangerous can RV travel be?  We have everything we need!  Full kitchen, bathroom and no need to stop anywhere or see a soul.  So we took off feeling thankful for a much needed escape.

Tallulah Gorge is a wonderful site.  With the days hot and the nights cool, we had a perfect campsite with no one else around us – distance protocol not a problem!  The first day’s hike was through all of the park’s boasted features and we thoroughly enjoyed hiking along the rim of the gorge and climbing and descending the 721 steps to the river below!  With miles under our belts (and plenty of elevation challenge), we spent the evening with a great meal and our favorite games.

Rob has been struggling with migraines lately and we’ve tried our best to maneuver around them enjoying the clear moments.   Usually waking in good shape, we decided to try an eleven mile hike to a lake positioned further into the park.  It was really a wonderful day despite the distance.  Without too much elevation change to challenge unreasonably, we made it to the lake and basked in the sunshine, our lunch and cool water to dip our sore feet into.

The camp host had told us that the back trails normally required permits to hike but that the office was closed with covid so we just needed to know there was no staff covering the area and to use 911 for emergencies.  Thankfully, the hike went off without event but we were surprised to find a group of rangers near the end of our day that were as surprised to see us as we were them!  We were admonished for not acquiring the previously stated as unavailable permit … apparently a miscommunication somewhere along the line!  We made our apologies and were treated to viewing the very rare trillium persistens plant found only in a four square mile area in the world – right where we were!  Who woulda guessed?!

With a great hike under our belt, we fell into another casual night.  Rob continued the daily migraine struggle as the day wore on which was the norm in recent times.  It’s so hard to watch this man of such strength and vigor be held back by this malady.  Taking one day at a time is all we can do and we settle in hoping for better spell in the morning.

Well, the morning didn’t bring us good tidings, I’m afraid.  We woke to Rob’s migraine growing progressively worse lending him finally on the floor without any fight left in him.  I called 911, an especially scary proposition with Covid raging.  Being in a remote campground, it took a little time for them to arrive.  Deciding the closest facility didn’t have the resources to care for Rob in his condition, it was decided to transfer him to Gainesville, an hour away, where they had full services for possible stroke or heart related issues. 

It’s Covid.  We don’t have a car.  I’m not allowed in the ambulance.  They’re taking Rob miles and miles from me – and he’s not well.  Needless to say, it was an unbelievably hard thing to process.  I first tried to rent a car but we were too far to have it delivered.  I tried to find someone in the campground to take me or lend me a vehicle.  No such luck.  And finally, realizing I couldn’t be in the hospital if I went, I tried to sit still with myself far too far from family or home.

Without spending a full page on the details, Rob needed to stay the whole day and into the next to get stabilized despite no answers being found.  The big challenge then was getting to him!  Time for the big girl panties.  I packed up the RV – first time solo – and I got behind the wheel thanking myself for having at least tried it once before!  I did it (and did take that selfie because I HAD to).  I did it fine, too.  I got things right, got out of the campground (despite accidentally hitting the air horn a couple times at the pre-waking hour of 7am!) and made the 60 mile trek to the Gainesville hospital. 

Rob wasn’t released until that afternoon and I sat in the RV in the entryway of the hospital (thanks, security!) trying to get updates and sending up supplies for Rob and fresh baked cookies for the nurses.  He was released in better but still far from perfect condition and it was time to get off the hospital grounds.  Navigating and driving through county roads on the approach to the highway toward home, I gained even further appreciation for Rob’s insistence on driving all the time!

I drove the balance of that day and we found a place to pull off the road for the night in the corner of a parking lot.  Not an auspicious place to spend our final night of our Covid escape but we could not have been happier to be where we were – safe, together and alive!