Sunday, September 15, 2019

Making Memories with Mom Sept 10 - 14 (warning - it's a long one!)

My mom is a force.  At 84 years young, she doesn’t turn down any chance at adventure – of course she never has!  I’m certain my travel bug comes from her.  When I left for college just after my dad left us behind for his “new life”, my mom packed up she and my sister and spent 18 months going entirely around the world.  She still works her own business leading a positive aging program she developed and is determined to continue to change lives every day.
Adventures with my mom are some of my favorite times.  We’ve traveled to Italy, the horn of South America and the Mediterranean together.  Inviting her for an RV trip paled in comparison but was momentous in its own right.  She arrived her spunky self, ready to go and we got right on the road.
I was determined to give her a cross section of our life on the road and tried to find good representations of our experiences along the way.  First stop was all I could find in a short-ish drive from Bangor.  It promised a small private campground on a beautiful lake. 
Hmm – first impressions weren’t that great.  The office was closed and we had to wait for someone to come check us in.  It was post season so all of the activities on the website had been stalled until spring and, to top it off, they gave us a campsite that was just plain unattractive! 
Being a world traveler and a positive person, my mom made the best of the situation and we set up our chairs and got ready to set the campfire for the night.  The campfire was much anticipated because coming from 90+ degree New Orleans, the dropping temps in Maine were Mom’s biggest challenge!
That’s when it rained.  Hard.  And unpredicted or expected!  Us spent from our hike and Mom spent from travel, we mixed a few drinks and got cozy inside ignoring both the less than impressive location and the weather surprise.  We played a few rounds of cards and Rob stayed busy in his usual style keeping us all entertained with his busybody antics!
The morning dawned cold but dry.   We had fun travels toward the second chosen campground.  First stop was a craft barn, a favorite “to do” for my Mom.  With crafts from local housewives, it was loaded with lots of goodies to pick through and enjoy.  Next stop was Camden, ME promising a good brewery.  We never found the brewery but did find a nice waterfront walk and more shops to poke through.
Upon arrival, the second night’s campground felt very similar to the previous night!  With high hopes of really special experiences, I was feeling pretty down.  We had another blah site in a blah area in a blah campground.  Ugh.  Repeat night one . . . stay positive!  We set up camp, put up our chairs and planned for the fire.  GUESS WHAT.  Really.  0% in the forecast.  RAIN!!!!
Well, the reason for picking the campground in the first place was that they cooked lobster pounds right there.  With our campsite turning to mud in our field location, we forged out in good spirits to make up for the circumstances.  Lobster has a way of curing pretty much any ill and in this case was no exception. 
With a fun collection of well-versed employees to guide the way, we chose two good sized lobsters and brought our own sides and drinks to make it a meal.  We dug in and dug deeper, finding all the little special places with more of the delicate treasured food with the help of the staff.  Phew – a good meal and a few drinks topped with a shared ice cream rescued the day!
With no reason not to get on the road early, day 3 took us further down the coast headed for a night with Mom’s friends of 40 years plus.  With our plan to generally stay clear of any major cities, we poked around in a couple towns on the way.  I was excited to find a nice hike on our way where Mom and I could manage to enjoy some of the beauty of the state without a rocky trail.  Yet more rain tried to change our plan but we put up our hoods and had a wonderful walk.
Next stop on the itinerary, Freeport and the Maine Brewing Company.  Being that it was just striking noon when we arrived, we ordered a wood fired pizza to accompany our chosen selections of beer.   Mean Old Tom Stout was a hit - DELISH!  Thanks to our son Jacob for the recommendation!
We arrived at Marilyn and Joe’s in the early afternoon after another stop at “just one more” brewery.   With Mom fully distracted by good friends, Rob and I hopped on the bikes and headed for a nature preserve not far away for a great hike
including some time on a beautiful beach.
Mom had a great night with her friends.  We reconnected in the morning planning a bit of hiking for all around the neighborhood before we took on helping Marilyn spruce up their front yard.A simple question to Rob of how to prune a plant turned into an all-out flowerbed cleanup!   With Mom and Joe looking on, Marilyn, Rob and I got down and outright dirty!  We were treated to a delicious sandwich buffet by Marilyn before we hit the road again. 
Having already had lunch, there was no excuse not to enjoy a cider along the way!   North Country Hard Cider made a delicious variety of unique ciders of which we tried six!  Our favorite was the Fire Starter with cinnamon and habanero to keep it interesting!
Tonight’s destination was another Boondockers Welcome location.  This one promising wonderful hosts in a small town right on the train tracks, I thought Mom might like to see how this setup worked.  Not wanting to arrive too early, we took the back roads and happened into a small town with a trio of breweries on the one corner in town! 

Not offering any dark beers in two, we wandered to the newer guy on the block – EP – Empty Pint.  What a nice owner.  And the bartender was a near replica of our own beer loving son, Jacob.  We enjoyed a nice toasted coconut porter and some great, lively conversation before saving ourselves from a big parking ticket and heading for our camp for the night.
Oh my.  The location was Newton Junction which I suspect originated from the train stop there.  And yes, our designated spot was RIGHT next to the tracks!  We pulled into a gravel spot in an industrial site where our hosts ran their commercial sign installation business.  There was really no town and nowhere to go – and THIS is where I brought my mom!
But wait!  Our hosts, Bev and Axel, didn’t disappoint.  Waving us in as we pulled up, Bev had one of those smiles that can light up a room!   Lovely from minute one, they offered power, water and even sewer hookup and made us feel welcome and at home.  Axel was quick to show Rob around their thriving business and Bev showed Mom and I to a small (VERY small) trail at the back of the property. 
We gathered for drinks as the trains whipped by.  As the sun began to sink, it got seriously cold outside!  Forgetting about dinner, we talked as the sun disappeared, a fire was lit and other boondockers joined in for toasting marshmallows.  Mom got colder and colder as Rob drank more and more and I broke up the fun to take us inside.   Rob was beyond being willing to eat and Mom was too cold to do anything but huddle under blankets!  We called it a day and spent the night trying to stay warm!
The morning called for anything hot and fresh and I baked up some muffins, took some to our hosts and we headed out early.  Thinking we could salvage all of our missed calls, we headed into Salem to have an adventurous day of sightseeing before our final night together.  We drove 40 minutes out of our way, made it to town, fueled up with propane … and never could find a way to maneuver through traffic and park!  FAIL!!!!
Almost despondent by now (but still laughing at our misfortune) we gave up and drove back inland to Harold Parker State Park where my sister and her good friend would come in the evening and take Mom into Boston for the next couple days. 
From the minute we settled into our site, all of the craziness of the previous four days disappeared.  The park was quiet   Our site was private and cozy.  The day was cloudy but warm enough.  We took walks and sat watching the rain come down for a quick shower before cooking up a storm, setting a table, preparing a campfire and waiting for our guests to arrive.
and lush.
Joni and Sarah found us just as the sun fully set and we had a wonderful reunion with great laughs, great food, a perfect fire and wine!  It was so fun to eat dinner by candlelight next to the crackling fire.  And before we knew it, they were driving away with Mom tucked in the back seat.  I couldn’t help but feel as I reflected on our time together that our final night wouldn’t have felt so perfect if our previous nights hadn’t been as odd.  Somehow our crazy adventure was exactly what it needed to be. 

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